Cubeman wrote:Leaving the board so many times is very annoying to the other player.Especially when it is your move and you are not at the board thinking.There should be some set limits to how many times a player can dissapear from the playing room.It could all be innocent, but to do that is rude and can create suspicion which is hard to ignore if you are the paranoid type.
Hi Alex,
I'd like you to clarify what you wrote.
Are you serious that leaving the board is rude? If so, then almost all of my OTB opponents were rude. But my perception is that they're not rude, and may even be trying to be polite.
Everybody has a different personality. Back when I played OTB chess, I usually stayed glued to my seat throughout the game. But my behavior was rare. I respect that others need a break to relax, or let off nervous energy, by walking around. Many perceive that it's good sportsmanship to leave the board after one's move, since their opponent now has no distraction from having someone sitting across from them.
You wrote, "Leaving the board so many times is very annoying to the other player. Especially when it is your move and you are not at the board thinking." Alex, your use of the pronouns "your" and "you" is confusing. Did you mean that it's annoying to have one's opponent away from the board when it's their move? I think the opposite. Their clock is ticking and they're away from the board, so it's their time being consumed, not mine. How is it annoying that they're consuming their own time away from the board, Alex?
However, you might instead have a valid point about leaving the tournament room. Nonetheless, I think that the vast majority of these trips are probably to use the toilet. The rest are probably just to release tension without distracting the players. Again, these are all innocent actions, so I question why you label this behavior as "rude". And the TDs have better things to do than to monitor each and every player leaving the playing room.
All the best,
Steve